There is a biblical secret to getting the right and prepared husband.
You probably clicked this link because you’re curious.
or because you’re a female and you want to have a life partner.
Whatever it is that made you click on this topic, I’m happy that you did.
and I’ll ask you to be patient and read to the end of the blog.
I pray that by the time I finish, God will open your eyes to something that he opened my eyes to
Have you ever found yourself fervently praying for a life partner, wondering if there’s a secret formula to finding the right person?
In this blog post, I will let you into a powerful revelation that changed my life and could potentially transform yours too.
I was single for 43 years, and I’ve been married for over 10 years.
So I’m speaking from a point of revelation and experience.
Praying for a Husband: the biblical secret
Stop praying for a husband.
This approach is a misdirection of prayers and time. You have no business praying for God to give you a husband.
Secondly, you are praying amiss.
You are wasting your time, and if you’ve been doing this for many years, please stop.
There is no place in the Bible that I know of that instructs a woman to pray to get a husband. There is no place.
But what is the Biblical secret when it comes to being a wife?
If you look at the Book of Proverbs 19:14, it says houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent and faithful wife is a gift from the Lord.
A gift to whom?
A gift is only given to those that the Lord is happy with. So a wife is a gift from God to the best of his sons.
So, woman, you are a gift.
You should be praying for God to make you a gift so that he can give you to the best of his sons.
You are the package. It is a man who looks for it, but it’s only God who can give him the package he has packaged for him, which is you.
You are the package You are the gift.
This revelation came to me at the age of 40 after many years of praying and fasting for a husband.
Biblical secrets about : The Role of a Wife
Women are the package, the gift, that God presents to His sons. Instead of praying for a husband,pray for God to mold you into the gift that He intends for His sons.The Biblical secrets, from Proverbs 31:10 onwards, beautifully describe the characteristics of a good wife. It emphasizes finding a wife of noble character, a challenge for any man.
This noble character is not visible on the surface; hence, it’s not something a man can find on his own.
Proverbs 31 states that a good wife brings him good, not evil, all the days of his life.
She selects wool and flax and walks with eager hands. She’s a businesswoman; she’s not idle.
she’s like the merchant ships bringing her foods from a far .she’s an exporter and importer.
She gets up while it is still night and provides food for her family.
She’s not lazy; she gets up while it is still night, that means she gets up around 4:00 a.m. or 5:00 a.m.
More characteristics of what a virtuous wife should be
She gets up to prepare for her family.
She considers a field and buys it. She’s an estate agent; she’s not doing only one business; she’s doing several businesses. She has business acumen.
She set about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her task, and she sees that her trading is profitable.
She’s sound financially.
In her hand, she crafts the spindle with her fingers. She’s a fashion designer; she sews clothes.
she opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy-
She is charitable; she’s a giver.
When it snows, she has no fear for her husband. She makes sure that everybody in her house is well clothed.
Everybody in her house is wearing the latest clothes, not just for fashion but also for comfort. She makes linen garments and sells them. That means she has an online store, a boutique.
She’s clothed with strength and dignity.
She speaks with wisdom.
And she doesn’t talk anyhow. She knows when to be quiet; she knows when to talk. The words that come out of her mouth build up; they do not tear down.
She watches over the affairs of her husband and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Again, she does not go about gossiping and wasting time; she doesn’t even have time to waste; she’s busy watching the affairs of her husband.
She makes sure and prays that her husband does not fail. that the business is going well.
The most important question
If I may ask, which of these attributes mentioned above do you have?
Do you now see why I said that praying for a husband is a waste of time?
You should be praying to be the Proverbs 31 woman, and it takes time for God to prepare you and package you to be this woman.
Stop praying for a husband.
Start praying to God to make you a gift.That is the biblical secret.
That is the biblical secret to getting the right husband.It has nothing to do with you praying for one.It has everything to do with God preparing you and handing you over to the best of his sons.
Biblical secrets on how to pray as a single woman
I will now teach you the biblical secrets of how to pray as a single woman. This is the prayer I started praying at the age of 40.And this is the prayer:
Dear God,forgive me for praying amiss all these years.Thank you for giving me the revelation that I am a gift from you to the best of your sons.I hand over my entire life to you.Father,please remove all those things in my body,my character,and my life that do not align with Proverbs 31.If you are a man reading this,then pray like this:
If there is anything in me that has not allowed you to give me this gift of a wife ,please work on me and open the eyes of my understanding that I may recognise this gift when you bring her my way.
In conclusion,I pray that God will help you, male or female, who have read this blog post. God almighty will help you to have an understanding and to wait patiently until god answers.
I did it and God worked on me for three years and and packaged me and gave me to the best of his sons.